be cruel to be kind
be cruel to be kind
To be blunt and honest with someone in order to help them realize something that may help them. This phrase expresses the idea that it is sometimes necessary to hurt someone's feelings in order to tell them the truth. I'm not going to sit here and tell Judith that she's a shoo-in when she's clearly not ready for her audition. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.
See also: cruel, kind, to
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms. © 2015 Farlex, Inc, all rights reserved.
be cruel to be kind
act towards someone in a way which seems harsh but will ultimately be of benefit.In Shakespeare 's Hamlet, I must be cruel only to be kind was Hamlet's explanation of his reasons for bullying his mother about her second marriage.
See also: cruel, kind, to
Farlex Partner Idioms Dictionary © Farlex 2017
be ˌcruel to be ˈkind
use unpleasant methods because they are necessary to help somebody: I was worried about Katie getting too involved with Steve so I eventually told her about his drug addiction youve got to be cruel to be kind sometimes. OPPOSITE: kill somebody with kindnessSee also: cruel, kind, to
Farlex Partner Idioms Dictionary © Farlex 2017
- cruel
- say the word
- helping
- lame
- help a lame dog over a stile
- help [someone] into [something]
- help [someone] on
- help on
- all hands to the pumps
- help out with
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